SOMETHING STUPID LIKE LOVE.

for women:" a man who truly loves you will never let you go no matter how hard the situation is."



for men: "a woman who truly loves you will be angry at you for so many things but will still stick around."


what a catchy phrase right? if i talk about love maybe I'm not really the right person for you to read and listen. But nevertheless i could still share something about my love life. harhar

eheeemmm (clears throat) where do i start of?

In the phrase (for women) it states there that "a woman who truly loves a man will be angry for so many things but will stick around." I totally agree with it. I have my own share of experience, rejections, being dumped (imagine, ako gud ang girl nya baga keo nawong ang lake i push ko away), and other things that hurts me. I've been betrayed, I've experience false hopes and when you're on the midst of that situation you really don't know what to do you become "tanga" as our bisaya slang describes it. I really don't know if I was "tanga" at that moment. All i know is that i loved that person soooo much. too much perhaps. And i can't afford to loose him. I thought that staying around would be better since I'm the person who understands him so much. Not all the time, but most of the time. Even though i was dumped over and over again i STiLL CHOOSE to love him. I had my share of sleepless nights, and sometimes literally i can feel pain on my chest for crying too much. I cry myself to sleep and have some serious eyebags the next morning. But how can we say enough is enough?when do we declare it? It's true that i have loved TRULY. i just LOVED, LOVED,and LOVED.





but it's alright, it's ok.

I know I'm a woman now.

i know i truly loved.

i learned and i forgive.

im also thankful for the experience, 2 years was quite a journey right?

I've got tips to the ladies out there


be with a man you are sure of.
don't be too jealous.
don't be too lax.
don't be too irritating.


do understand him.
do care for him.
and well,discover and learn things on you're own

love is a bitter sweet journey.

it's risky.
it's painful.
but remember at the end of the day it will be all worth it.

XOXO'ai-"love is always a decision not just mere feelings."